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FAQ & Turnarounds

Everything you need to know about ordering, timelines, materials, and more. If you can’t find your answer here, we’d love to hear from you.

Production Timelines

How long will my order take?

All silhouette illustrations are hand-refined by our artist. Because of this artistry, each product has a specific turnaround. Times can vary during our busy seasons.

Silhouette Illustrations

2–3 Weeks for Proof

Silhouette proof within 2–3 weeks. A proof will arrive via the email address provided in your order. 

Charms & Jewelry

4–6 Weeks Total

Silhouette proof within 2–3 weeks, then hand-engraving by our goldsmith in Greece adds an additional 2–3 weeks. Each piece is individually hand crafted and created with great care and love

Additional Prints

1–2 Weeks

Re-ordering a previously approved silhouette? Since the art is already done, reprints ship within 1–2 weeks of ordering.

Holiday & rush seasons: Timelines can extend by an additional 2–3 weeks during peak periods (October – December & April -- May). We always communicate expected delivery at checkout and will update you personally if anything changes.

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Ordering & Process

Visit our Shop page, choose your product (silhouette illustration, charm, or gift card), and complete checkout. After ordering, upload your profile photo through our Photo Upload page using your order number. We’ll take it from here!

Our digital illustration is a high-resolution file you can print yourself at any size. An art print is a physical, archival-quality print we produce and ship to you. Both start with the same hand-refined silhouette — you choose how you’d like to receive it.

Yes! Family groupings are one of our most popular options. For illustrations, we compose multiple silhouettes together.  For jewelry, you can add multiple charms to a single chain. Upload one clear profile photo per person.

Just one great profile photo per person. A true 90° side profile with natural lighting works best. Check our Photo Guide for tips on capturing the perfect shot.

Yes — just include your original order number or email address when uploading your photo, and we’ll match the style. This is especially common for families adding a new child to an existing set.

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Photos & Quality

A good profile photo shows a true side view (90°), is taken at eye level, and shows the nose, lips, chin, and neckline clearly. Natural lighting and a simple background help most. Visit our detailed Photo Guide for visual examples of what works and what doesn’t.

Absolutely! Email your photo to hello@dapperdarling.com and we’ll let you know if it will work well — before you place your order. No charge, no obligation.

Hair is one of the most personal parts of the silhouette. We capture it exactly as it appears in your photo — curls, wisps, ponytails, and all. That’s why we recommend photographing your child with their hair the way they usually wear it.

Our prints are produced on archival-grade paper with inks rated to last 100+ years without fading. The exact stock varies by product, but every material is chosen for longevity and quality.

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Products & Materials

All jewelry is crafted from solid 14k gold or sterling silver — never plated, never filled, never hollow. Each piece is hand-engraved by our goldsmith in Athens, Greece using traditional techniques. The result is an heirloom-quality piece designed to last generations.

Store your charm in a dry place when not wearing it. For gold, a soft cloth wipe is all you need. For sterling silver, a jewelry polishing cloth will restore shine if patina develops. Avoid contact with harsh chemicals, perfume, and chlorine.

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Shipping & Returns

Yes! We ship to most countries worldwide. International shipping rates and timelines vary by destination and are calculated at checkout. Jewelry orders from Greece may have separate tracking once they ship from the goldsmith’s studio. Usually it takes between 10-16 days of shipping.

Because every piece is custom-made from your photograph, we’re unable to accept returns. However, we send you a proof for approval before production — so you’ll love your piece before we make it. If there’s ever an issue with quality, please contact us and we’ll make it right.

Yes — all domestic orders ship with tracking. You’ll receive an email with your tracking number as soon as your order ships. International orders also include tracking, though visibility may vary by destination.

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Other Questions

We offer 10% off your first order when you subscribe to our newsletter. Occasionally we run seasonal promotions — the best way to stay in the loop is through our email list.

 

We’d love that! Follow us on Instagram or Facebook where we share behind-the-scenes, faith, and family content. You can also email us anytime at hello@dapperdarling.com — we genuinely read and respond to every message.

We’re always open to meaningful collaborations with photographers, family-focused brands, and content creators who share our values. Send us an email with a bit about yourself and what you have in mind — we’d love to chat.

Questions? we've got answers

The questions that are asked the most, now answered! If you have any questions that have not been addressed in the FAQ please contact us.

You can order directly through this website in the shop section.
  1. Order your product under the “SHOP” link on our website. You can choose between a necklace, wooden heirloom, wooden ornament, or an art print.
  2. When placing your order, upload your photo and if it applies to your order, also choose wording, wreath, & watercolor wash.
  3. If you don’t upload your photo at the time, upload it on the “UPLOAD” link on our site within 6 months from your order date.
  4. After you submit your photo and receive confirmation, you will wait 2-4 weeks for a proof.
  5. Once you receive that proof, please either approve it or you are allowed 1 small revision for free.
  6. After it is approved, your order will be shipping within 1-2 weeks depending on product and our order fulfillment team will keep you updated.
  7. Receive your product in the mail, LOVE it, photograph it, & share it with the world!
Dapper & Darling makes it possible to own your very own silhouette at two different price points. The ART PRINT is the custom silhouette created and professionally print and the digital version is the custom silhouette sent electronically through email in two different file formats. Please specify which at checkout, pdf or jpeg.
Great question. A good profile photo can really make for the best possible silhouette. Use this guide to help when you’re taking your photos.

Absolutely!! If you want to know if we can ship to your specific address and how much the shipping amount will be, please enter your address at checkout and it will be calculated based on address & product!

Depending on your location, additional custom charges may apply. This is 100% out of our control, however our team will be in touch with you!

Unfortunately, no. The Keepsake necklaces cannot have engraved writing on the front OR the back. There is only room for your beautiful silhouettes to go on it.

It all depends on our season! We have two pre-orders every year. Rush season starts in October and goes until December. Slow season then goes from December until March. After that, rush season picks back up from March-June. After that, it will be slow season until we hit our Christmas preorder again in October! Turnaround times during that time are listed below with subject to change depending on our influx of orders:

Slow Season: 2-3 weeks for designing & 1-2 weeks for shipping
Rush Season: 3-4 weeks for designing & 2 weeks for shipping

We are a 48hr return policy. If you’d like to change your mind and cancel your order, you have 48hrs to do so.

If you’ve submitted your photo late (missed a specific holiday deadline) and are under the 48hrs, you may cancel your order. If you are passed the 48hrs, then you may not cancel your order.

There are absolutely no refunds after order has been illustrated and proofed.

You can view our photo guide on our site https://dapperdarling.com/#photoguide

It shows what type of photos we need at the bottom to create the perfect silhouette. If you are still wondering if it is a good photo. Please email: HELLO@DAPPERDARLING.COM with your photos and we can help you!

Every silhouette head gets 1 free small revision (nose, hair, chin, mouth, eyelashes, etc). If you want to re-do more than just 1 small revision, please order a revision fee here & if you want to re-do your child’s entire silhouette, please order 2 of the revision fee’s here

We only require 1 photo and only 1 photo. For mostly all circumstances, we are only able to use 1 photo to create the entire silhouette. We are unable to combine two photos together to create it.

Nope! & that is totally expected. We have a printing supplier & an engraving supplier so anything that is printed gets shipped together & anything that is engraved gets shipped together from two different places!

If you click on the product listing, you can choose the wash/wreath combo you would like, choose if you want a print or digital, and the sizing as well! After that, the product listing photo will change to each wreath/wash combo and you can see which combination you like best 🙂

The paper you will be receiving your art prints on is 120# Cotton cardstock Eggshell paper with just a touch of texture. They are packaged in sturdy envelopes and shipped via FedEx

This is because every pearl has its own consistency and waves as they are all their own unique piece and they cannot be exchanged or returned. The Wood for the Keepsake Necklaces is the same as well.

I do! If you like us on Facebook, you’ll receive a discount. Also, you’ll see giveaways and preorder discounts appear randomly on our Instagram. Make sure to follow us and join us during those times!

We believe that D&D exists to allow the Father to work through our work and grow His kingdom by connecting passionate hearts and inspiring individuals. If you have a business or a social media platform that’s founded on these purposes and values, we’d LOVE to chat! Email us at collabs@dapperdarling.flywheelsites.com and let’s see the Lord do amazing things.

Monthly Payments

Pay over time with Affirm

We believe everyone deserves the chance to preserve their memories in heirloom quality. That’s why we’ve partnered with Affirm to offer flexible monthly payment options — so you can invest in a keepsake that lasts without paying everything upfront.

No hidden fees. Real-time decisions at checkout. Choose 3, 6, or 12 month plans.

Add to cart & choose Affirm

Select Affirm as your payment method at checkout.

Get a real-time decision

Quick approval with no impact to your credit score to check.

Pick your plan

Choose 3, 6, or 12 months. Know exactly what you'll pay.

We start crafting immediately

Your order enters production right away — no waiting.

Affirm FAQ

Affirm is a financing option that lets you split your purchase into monthly payments. It’s integrated directly into our checkout — no separate application needed.

No. Checking your eligibility uses a soft credit check that doesn’t affect your credit score. A hard check only occurs if you proceed with the loan.

Rates vary from 0–36% APR depending on your credit and the plan you choose. You’ll see your exact rate before you commit — no surprises.

Payments are managed through the Affirm app or website. You can set up autopay or make manual payments each month.

Yes — there are no prepayment penalties. You can pay off your balance anytime without extra fees.

Since our products are custom-made, returns aren’t available. However, we send a proof for approval before production, so you’ll love your piece before we make it.

Affirm is currently available for US customers only. International customers can use standard payment methods at checkout.

Visit Affirm’s Help Center for detailed information about accounts, payments, and financing terms.

Still have questions?

We’re real people and we genuinely love hearing from you. Reach out anytime — no question is too small.
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AFfirm Financing

Affirm is a financing alternative to credit cards and other credit-payment products. Affirm offers instant loan decision financing for online purchases to be paid in fixed monthly installments over 3, 6, or 12 months
 
For example, on a $700 purchase, you may pay $63.18 for 12 months with a 15% APR.

Buy and receive your purchase right away, and pay for it over several months. This payment option allows you to split the price of your purchase into fixed payment amounts that fit your monthly budget.

 

If Affirm approves your loan, you’ll see your loan terms before you make your purchase. See exactly how much you owe each month, the number of payments you must make, and the total amount of interest you’ll pay over the course of the loan. There are no hidden fees.

 

The application process is secure and real-time. Affirm asks you for a few pieces of information. After you provide this information, Affirm notifies you of the loan amount that you’re approved for, the interest rate, and the number of months that you have to pay off your loan — all within seconds.You don’t need a credit card to make a purchase. Affirm lends to the merchant directly on your behalf.

 

You may be eligible for Affirm financing even if you don’t have an extensive credit history. Affirm bases its loan decision not only on your credit score, but also on several other data points about you. 

 

Affirm reminds you by email and SMS before your upcoming payment is due. Enable Autopay to schedule automatic monthly payments on your loan.

To sign up for Affirm, you must:

– Must be a resident of the U.S. (including U.S. territories).

– Be 18 years or older (19  if you’re a ward of the state in Nebraska)

– Have a Social Security number.

– Own a phone number that receives SMS and is registered to the United States or U.S. territories

Affirm loan-application process steps:

  1. At checkout, choose Pay with Affirm.
  2. Affirm prompts you to enter a few pieces of information: Name, email, mobile phone number, date of birth, and the last four digits of your social security number. This information must be consistent and your own. 
  3. To ensure that you’re the person making the purchase, Affirm sends a text message to your cell phone with a unique authorization code.
  4. Enter the authorization code into the application form. Within a few seconds, Affirm notifies you of the loan amount you’re approved for, the interest rate, and the number of months you have to pay off your loan. You have the option to pay off your loan over three, six, or twelve months. Affirm states the amount of your fixed, monthly payments and the total amount of interest you’ll pay over the course of the loan.
  5. To accept Affirm’s financing offer, click Confirm Loan and you’re done.   

After your purchase, you’ll receive monthly email and SMS reminders about your upcoming payments. You can also set up autopay to avoid missing a payment.

Your first monthly payment is due 30 days from the date that we (the merchant) processes your order.

Affirm asks for a few pieces of personal information: Name, email address, mobile phone number, date of birth, and the last four digits of your social security number. Affirm verifies your identity with this information and makes an instant loan decision. Affirm bases its loan decision not only on your credit score, but also on several other data points. This means that you may be able to obtain financing from Affirm even if don’t have an extensive credit history.
Although Affirm performs a credit check when you apply for a loan, this won’t impact your credit score. However, if you’re approved and decide to buy with Affirm, your loan and payments may affect your credit score.  Paying on time can help you build a positive credit history. 
The merchant has no information regarding a customer’s financing denial. Affirm strives to offer all credit-worthy applicants financing with Affirm, but isn’t able to offer credit in every case. Affirm will send you an email with more details about its decision. Unfortunately Affirm’s decision is final.
If Affirm has difficulty confirming your identity, you may need to provide more information. Affirm uses modern technology to confirm your identity, including verifying your address or full SSN, or requesting a photo of your ID. Affirm takes these steps in some cases to counter fraud and provide the most accurate credit decision they can.
Affirm may sometimes need more information about your finances and your ability to repay in order to make a credit decision. Your income gives Affirm additional insight into your ability to repay.

Affirm may sometimes need more information about your finances and your ability to repay in order to make a credit decision. If you are prompted to link your checking account and would like to proceed, please provide the login information for your online bank account. Affirm does not store your online login credentials—they are transmitted securely to your bank.

If Affirm asks you to link your checking account, Affirm won’t be able to offer you credit if:

– Your bank is not listed

– You choose not to link your checking account

– You don’t use online banking

– The username and / or password you provide is incorrect

– *You’re unable to successfully connect your checking account

Affirm isn’t always able to offer credit for the full amount you request. In these cases, Affirm asks you to make a down payment with a debit card for the remainder of your purchase. The down payment amount can’t be changed and must be made upon confirming your loan and before the loan offer expires.

 

Yes! Affirm works hard to be completely transparent. You’ll see the amount of interest you’ll owe on the terms page and again on the loan confirmation page. If you pay off your loan early, you’ll receive a rebate for any interest that hasn’t yet accrued.

 
Affirm is available only to shoppers residing in the United States. Affirm hopes to expand its services to customers outside the U.S. in the future.
Interest Rates and Fees

The annual percentage rate (APR) on an Affirm loan ranges from 10% to 36%. Affirm discloses any required fees upfront before you make a purchase, so you know exactly what you will pay for your financing. Affirm does not charge any hidden fees, including annual fees.  

 

When Affirm determines your annual percentage rate (APR), it evaluates a number of factors, including your credit score and other data about you. If you finance future purchases with Affirm, you may be eligible for a lower APR depending on your financial situation at the time of purchase.

This APR calculator will give you an idea of how much interest you actually pay: HTTPS://WWW.AFFIRM.COM/APR-CALCULATOR/

When you consider Affirm financing, carefully evaluate the loan terms that Affirm offers you and determine whether the monthly payments fit your budget.  

 

Affirm calculates the annual percentage rate (APR) of a loan using simple interest, which equals the rate multiplied by the loan amount and by the number of months the loan is outstanding. 

This model differs from compound interest, in which the interest expense is calculated on the loan amount and the accumulated interest on the loan from previous periods. Think about compound interest as “interest on interest,” which can increase the loan amount. Credit cards, for example, use compound interest to calculate the interest expense on outstanding credit card debt.   

MAKING PAYMENTS AND REFUNDS

Before each payment is due, Affirm sends you an email or SMS reminder with the installment amount that is coming due and the due date. You have the option to sign up for autopay, so you don’t risk missing a payment.

Follow these steps to make a payment:

1. Go to WWW.AFFIRM.COM/ACCOUNT.

2. Enter your mobile phone number. Affirm sends a personalized security PIN to your phone.

3. Enter this security PIN into the form on the next page and click Sign in.

4. After you sign in, a list of your loans appears, with payments that are coming due. Click the loan payment you would like to make.

5. Make a payment using a debit card or ACH bank transfer.

A refund posts to your Affirm account if we process your refund request. In the event that we issue you store credit instead of a refund, you are still responsible for paying off your Affirm loan.If you have already made loan payments or a down payment, Affirm issues a refund credit to the bank account or debit card that you used to make the payments.We do not refund any paid interest.

A refund credit appears in your account within three to ten business days, depending on your bank’s processing time.

 

You cannot edit your order after you have confirmed your loan. If you want to add items to your purchase, apply for another loan with Affirm or use a different payment method.

 

Refunds can be processed up to 365 days from the date your order is placed.

 
For Additional Information

Please visit Affirm’s Help Page for all questions or customer service inquiries related to Affirm’s financing products and services.

Terms and Agreement for Free Silhouette Illustration for Collaborations:
By checking this box, you agree to the following terms and conditions for receiving a free silhouette illustration from Dapper and Darling:

  1. Purpose of Collaboration: The free silhouette illustration provided by Dapper and Darling is intended for promotional purposes only. You agree to use the silhouette illustration in accordance with the terms outlined in this agreement.
  2. Promotional Obligations: As a recipient of a free silhouette illustration, you agree to promote Dapper and Darling and the provided illustration on your social media channels and other platforms, as mutually agreed upon by both parties. This specific collaboration includes: static post or reel and 2-3 stories featuring the timelapes and silhouette illustration. Tag Dapper and Darling  @dapperanddarlingshop and link dapperdarling.com in the caption or image. Failure to do these obligations within 2 weeks of delivery (or within 24hrs of story sharing) will result in an invoice for the entirety of work created. 
  3. Content Ownership: You will have the right to use the illustration for promotional purposes as outlined in this agreement. You may not modify or alter the illustration in any way without prior written consent from Dapper and Darling.
  4. Tagging and Attribution: When posting content featuring the silhouette illustration, you agree to properly tag and attribute Dapper and Darling in the caption or image. This includes tagging @dapperanddarlingshop and using designated hashtags #dapperanddarling #sentimentalmama #keepthemlittle
  5. Usage Rights: You are granted a non-exclusive, non-transferable license to use the silhouette illustration solely for the purposes outlined in this agreement. You may not sublicense, sell, or otherwise transfer the rights to the illustration to any third party without prior written consent from Dapper and Darling.
  6. Duration of Agreement: This agreement shall remain in effect for the duration of the promotional campaign or collaboration, as agreed upon by both parties. Dapper and Darling reserves the right to terminate this agreement at any time if the terms outlined herein are violated.
  7. Indemnification: You agree to indemnify and hold harmless Dapper and Darling, its officers, employees, and agents, from and against any claims, liabilities, damages, losses, or expenses arising out of or in connection with your use of the silhouette illustration and your promotional activities related thereto.
  8. Governing Law: This agreement shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of [Jurisdiction], without regard to its conflict of law provisions.
  9. Acceptance of Terms: By checking this box, you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to be bound by the terms and conditions of this agreement.

What does full printing rights mean?

When you purchase a digital silhouette, you’re not just getting an image; you’re capturing a moment in light and shadow.

Printing rights allow you to share these moments freely, whether it’s printing them for your home, sharing them with loved ones, or even using them on personal items like cards or mugs. So, whether it’s a picture of a couple’s first dance, a baby’s tiny hand, or friends laughing together, you have the freedom to bring these heartfelt memories to life in tangible ways.

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